| So my wedding plans are almost finalised!!!! YEAH!!!!
We are having our reception for our wedding at Ty's Dad and his wife's cafe/resturant. It only seats 80ppl so we have to invite less to the wedding than we wanted, but it's cheaper so thats good.
We dont know yet where we want to be married, but the cafe is a 5 min walk to the bay(ocean) and it's not that pretty there, kind dirty looking becuase it is a bay, and there isnt any sand really, so maybe we are thinking further along the bottom coast of Victoria, becuase all the beautiful beaches are down there. But im not too sure if i would want a beach wedding. Im really hating going to the beach as it is now, the sand blows at you and stings the shit outta your whole body, it gets stuck in your toes, or shoes..........I think i would like a nice park wedding, over looking the beach!!!
our honeymoon is totally set on HONG KONG for 10 days (im going to miss Ethan)
So we have been mainly planning the attractions we want to go to see and do over there, and we havent even planned where we are getting married!!! LOL i told ty we cant go till we are married, so hurry up and take me down the coast so we can see where to get married!!!
Our honeymoon is getting to be costing $$$$ lots!!! i wanted to make it a great trip for both of us, becuase we both have never been their and Ty has never been overseas. So total cost i would want to pay is $5000!!! Including food shopping (main reason for me wanting to go their) and accommadation and air fares and all torist attractions eg disneyland!!!
We were going to go into china to see those warrior statues i watched a doco on them they are in Xiam and ty wanted to go to bejing to see the great wall of china. that boosted our tip up to a total of $10,000 so i said we should stick to hong kong for now, and in the future when we are RICH ( i wish lol never going to happen till i win the lotto) we can go to china and see it, and i would like to go back to the USA and England. I want to go to Italy france Greece some parts of germany!! but maybe when my kids are really old!!! we can do that!!!
So we have to start saving for this trip!!! mmm.....i really need a job bad, i have an interview for a supermarket position next wednesday, im really hoping i get this job, because i have been looking for 3 weeks now, and applied to heaps and this is the first one that will interview me!!! It's a bit of a hike for me to get to the job, about 35-45 mins drive!!! So i will want to do longs shifts if possible!!
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| Ok so my engagement party is coming up in feb!!!Im inviting everyones kids Im very excited, now Ty (my fiance) has 9 nieces and Nephews, all which are good apart from one ( i can handle him). But the problem isnt with them (im allowed to tell them off if they do something bad) It's my cousin.....
So my cousin got married to this guy....who is 11 yrs older than her, he has 3 kids, Boys 8 and 5 and a little girl who is 4 or turning 4 this month..... Anyway since i have been living with my parents, this is considered "MY HOUSE" and we had a christmas party just before the 25th dec and she brang her new kids for the first time. WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok so the first rule of these kids, was my son Ethan wasnt allowed up the stairs!!!! This is where most of his toys are and his and my bedroom are. second rule of the little girl was he wasnt allowed to touch his own toys....3rd was he wasnt allowed to sit next to her when she open up christmas presents( my mum did the right thing a bought them all a gift, she snatched it outta her hands and ran off, she opened it and left it on the floor, my mum picked it up to show my aunt and cousin and she yelled at her to not touch her toys and to go away!!!), so what did her father do..........NOTHING what did my cousin do........Asked her to play nicely, what did the little bitch say "Fuck off, i make the rules he is not playing with my toys!!!! What did my cousin say nothing!!!! WTF????
Her brother said Ethan could hold/play with these large rings that you throw on the stick...I have no idea what it's called ( it was a present), and that little girl came down the stairs and stole them from him. So my Aunt there step grandmother gave Ethan 2 more of them, she chased after him pushed him over and told him not to touch her brothers toys. Now at this time, the father made the boys sit on the step becuase they had a fight over throwing a ball. I told him that his daughter was pushing Ethan over and stuff. He said ok i'll speak to her, which he didnt.
In the end she was standing on the stair screaming at him that if he came up the stairs she would push him down,. My Aunt didnt say anything she was right there, and she kept yelling and her dad and my cousin just watched her, and Ethan started up the stairs and she started coming down yelling that he wasnt allowed up his own stairs in his house!!!
So i SNAPPED!!!!!! I ripped thru this little girl!!!!! I couldnt stand it any more. i told her " This is his house, this is my house, if you are in my house you play by my rules, MY RULE IS SHARE AND CARE and since you have been here you have done nothing but be mean to Ethan who LIVES HERE. If you dont share and you push him over again you can no longer play with any of his toys"
She told me "i dont care!!! i dont have to listen to you"
At this stage she was holding ethans favorite ball which she had stole off him, and i told her " That is Ethans ball, he was playing with it and you snatched it off him without asking, that is rude, and you should give it back to him and not snatch toys off anyone in my house" And that that moment she ran further up the stairs and went to her dad, who said "listen to Natalie" The little BITCH ran down the stairs stood a couple of stairs up from ethan and aimed then thru the ball at Ethan hit him in the head and he came tumbling down a couple of stairs, i caught him he was ok thankfully. The father saw this and i said " what are you going to do about this?" And he said " it was an accident she didnt mean to hit him!!!!" YES SHE DID!!!!
My cousin thanked me for having a little yell at her step daughter, she said she has need that for a long time. I just dont think she is ready for the resposibility of 3 kids??!!! She is 22 yrs old, she wants 3 kids of her own, turns out the new husbands has a vasectomy, so no babys are happening soon!
Ok so after reading that story, do you think it's rude for me to ask my cousin not to bring her new kids??? Yet everyone else will have there kids at my house??? there is going to be about 20 kids here.
i just dont want to have to watch over Ethan like a hawk or the other kids just incase she behaves the way she did a few weeks ago!!! most of the kids are 2 and under there are 6, 1 yrs olds coming. | | comments: 3 comments or Leave a comment |
| Well thought i better update on christmas!!!
My parents gave me and ty a BBQ which is totally what he wanted. And my mum said that it cost so much that she was only going to give me a cheap present as another gift that i might like!! But she gave me a BIKE!!!! A really expensive one, becuase Ty has a nice bike and we bought the child seat for Ethan so we can go bike riding all together, but my bike i got when i was 10yrs old, so it's kinda small and old.
On christmas eve, i accually asked my mum if she accually got me a present? and she said yeah it's small, and i said " did you give me a barbie?" and she was like "no it's really small" i then said, " DO YOU KNOW WHAT I REALLY WANT, I WANT A BIKE!!! but i'll get one in the after xmas sales" LOL and she said to me, well you didnt ask for one, so i never thought you would want one!!! And she blasted my sisters and asked if they told me!!! But they didnt know i was getting a bike either!!LOL LOL
Anyway, i got ty a box set of back to the future, he doesnt like it!! A t-shirt, bike helmet and this book on real crime (he loves that stuff)
My nana gave use, BBq utensils, and a camera bag for our video camera!!
We got $150 in coles myer vouchers!!! Pain cause we like shopping at Big W too and thats the wrong company(i dont know if you have one in the USA??) I love Target clothing and Kmart stuff is cheap!!!
I got from ty computer games and CD of billy joel which im listening too right now!! I love it!!! and cool head phones for my MP4 player!!!
ETHAN GOT:
Playskool Kitchen (mummy and daddy)
A folding camp chair ( Aunt Chelsea)
A cool Elmo Bag ( Aunt Elise)
The wiggles phone (Santa)
The wiggles band set- drums, Guitar and keyboard ( Santa)
Dr Seuss book collection ( mummy and daddy)
MEGA BLOCKS (like the lego stuff for small kids) ( santa)
Hot wheel cars (oma)
A wheel barrow and garding stuff ( great nana and granddad)
Bike (Nana & Grandad)
And other stuff i just cant think off right now!!! Heaps form other Aunty's and Uncles.......
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| I have the family pic i picked up yesterday. They look good.
Also i got back my school results for my business course, i got HD for all my sujects but one i got a D (high distiction, and just one distiction) I have spoken to all the girls and i got top marks for the class!!! I have never had taht before, so im very excited!!!
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| Ok so me and My sister Chelsea(18) are sick of our sister Elise(21)
WHY??? Because she rides my parents for everything and me and chelsea get shit all!!! We dont care about getting presents and stuff for christmas, but seriously ELISE! FUCK....." my i wrote my christmas list!!! i want everything on there, it's only september but i wrote it early so you get me everything" " mum i helped you last week with something on the computer, i want and extra present this year becuase of it" " mum i feel sick today, can you drive me the 30mins to work, cuase i dont think i can make it" " mum natalie looked at me funny" "mum chelsea said i was lazy"
She plays my parents and we are sick of it!!! Yesterday it was: MUM " here are some biscuits i got from my work, you girls can share them cuase i dont like shortbread"
After mum left it was elise saying " I ate 2, you can both have only 2, if you have anymore im not letting you have the rest, and mum will agree cuase you ate some biscuits the other day" hahaha she left the room, and me and chelsea put some of them (like 15) in the biscuit jar to see if she went and ate more..... about 3 hrs later i got the biggest abuse ever from Elise, saying she is calling mum cuase it's not fare that we ate heaps and she didnt get too!!! I told her that we hide them and she hasnt spoken to me and chelsea since!!! LOL Turns out she went and ate 5 more of them, thats how many we left in the packet!!!
She doesnt do house work, doesnt pay rest, refuses to wash the dishes becuase she now "feels sick" she "fainted" last nite, suprisinly no one was home when it happend. No wonder she fainted, she wears her dressing gown all day, with a jumper and tracksuit pants in the middle of a HOT SUMMER, and no air-con is allowed when there is the smoke hanging around, it was so hot i was wearing my underwear, so was ethan!!! "mum my car is broken" ok well mum will pay $1000's and has already for her car, if me and chelsea says "mum car is broken" Well mum and dad say, save up and pay for it!!!
This is how me and chelsea can tell Elise is the FAVORITE, we now all have our licences and so we can drive, Elise was so freaked out at driving a manual she got her auto licence at 20yrs old, me and chelsea both got it at 18yrs. Chelsea has only had hers for a few mths, elise is over 1 yr now, me 5 yrs.... when i was 18 for the first week mum said she was so worried about me driving at night she couldnt sleep, and it has been the same for Chelsea, Elise however...........she worrys about her driving to work, driving home from work, driving to the shops, if she isnt home at the "right" time mum will call her!!! WTF????
Do you think the treatment my parents are giving her is turning her into a werid, anti social person. the only people she speaks to is my cousin who is 21, but she doesnt want to hang out with Elise cause she talks to much about TV. And the kids at childcare.
Never had a boyfriend....had her first kiss about 1 yr ago, after me and my friend helped her out with finding a boy. Didnt want to date him in the end, becuase he doesnt look like chad michael murray.
She is having like 10million kids and adopting too, her house is going to be the same at the 7th heaven house, her kids are going to be all the same as them also!!!
I tell her she needs to get out more to meet a guy or get online on those love sites. What do i get for saying that " Stop picking on your sister, there is nothing wrong with her"
Ok as you can see this was long and i have a major issue with my sister, who is now having a tv marathon by herself of Felcity, she bought all the box sets!!! And on sunday is having a movie marathon at the cinema she decided to have, all alone!!! Like always!!
ok well i hope everyone else is well, i picked up my family photos, and i'll scan them for you to see!!! | | comments: 3 comments or Leave a comment |
| Ok so this is my wedding dress choice, colour and style!!! I dont want a traditional white dress kinda wedding, i have always wanted something different. So this is my choice and the guy on ebay said it will cost $200, and i have asked some of his customers that bought dresses simalar if theirs were good, and they said it was the best buy, and so perfect!!! So im hoping mine will be the same!!
My flower girls will wear cream, and the bridesmaids will wear a very pale pink.
Unless you can think of another colour that would suit them to my dress? Im not a big pink person, but this dress is just so perfect to me!!! | | comments: 2 comments or Leave a comment |
| Im having so much fun buying presents for everyone this year, i have decided tonight with ty, to undo the budget rule, and go crazy!!!!
WHY YOU ASK???? Because i was too smart and bought all my presents 2 months ago, and im bored!!! And want to shop.
The bushfires are freaking me out, everyday i wake up to SMOKE all around my house, i have a gully full of trees in the front of my house and i can no longer see anything in there, its that bad. The bush fire is massive, about a 2/3 hr drive from my house, but still they recon it will burn until April next year, its that bad!!!
I live in the bush, there was a really bad fire about 23yrs ago where all the houses in my area burnt down and there there hasnt been a fire here in ages. So chances are this year it's going to happen, since we have had the dryest winter, with hardly any rain, we have such annoying water restrictions going on, we might end up having the one when we can only flush the toilet if it's REALLY needed!! And the water people come around and monitor everything, so if we used more water than the ppl living here, we will have our water turned off!!! It sucks bad.
Do you think smoke will be bad for Ethan if he plays out side in it? i havent been letting him out so much becuase of it, and he is a bit grumpy about that. It doesnt hurt my eyes or anything, just smells really bad.
how is everyone else?? the temp here got up too 43 degreesi dont know what that is in the USA system, but thats freaking hot!!! lets say 18 degrees, is a bit chilly i would wear pants and a jumper... 43 is so hot i wanted to wear nothing!!!
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| is EBAY!!!!!!!
Why??? because i went to a special VIP invitation only toy sale, which is going on until 23rd Dec 06. And they had Barbie dolls there. The colletor ones and rare Fariytopia Elina dolls, for really cheap, so i bought a few and put them on ebay. I have had a lot of interest and they have been on for 2 days!!! they have 8 days to go.
So im hoping i have found my new market. My Mum and Sister collect barbies....and i have a few my Mum bought for me that are worth a bit now. But i would never sell them, they are special to me!!!
But now im a bit too excited and been looking on the barbie collector website and wanting toooooo many for myself!!!
Ty said i could collect some but only the Gold labels ( they are the ones where 25,000 or less have been produced in the world.) And i have one, im trying to sell on ebay, there is only 10,600 made worldwide.
I want to keep it, but Ty wants me to sell it. it cost me AU$47.00 RRP AU$99.99
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| Im no longer pregnant!! but i guess i dont have time to sit around and be upset!!! i have so much going on in my life right now, it could have been from all the stress that i lost it!!??
So anyway, me and Ty are really not good, and i dont want us to pretend everything is ok, which is what he wants!! it shits me, he tells me that we will forget about all our problems and start again next week!! and he WANTS me to move in as soon as my parents get back from their trip, i cant even stay here one night with them, after not seeing them for 10 weeks, i have to pack up all my things and move back!!
I have been making up list of why i should go back, and the only thing thats good, is that he was with me when i was pregnant and he is Ethans "daddy"
Bad points: he drinks (maybe 3 days a week) i told him i cant date a drinker cuase of what happend to me when i was with my ex husband, NO SMOKING!!! he said he would quit becuase he loves me and wants to have a relationship with me.....that was over 17mths ago now!! and he still smokes!!! and keeps saying that he will quit but will only do it if i move back home NOW!! i want proof that he will quit!! thats what he had to do for at least 3 weeks!! before i come back home!!!
And him to REALLY stand up for me infront of his family, and not make me sit in the cornor to lick my wounds, to let me stand up for myself and not tell me to shut my mouth and not say anything back cause "im the big person" by not saying anything back!!
I hate his fucked up religous talks about how im not Chirstian so im going to hell and that upsets him, and i tell him im not making him change for me, so why should i believe in somehting i dont....i would only be faking it and then i would still go to HELL!!
Why would anyone go back to that?? seriously??
And part of our agreement was that i can be with other guys, and he can be with other girls!!! well i was and i told him, why ask if you dont want to know right?? well that was it!! he hated me im a cheater??!! WTF!!! i dont think so it was part of the whole agreement, so he has been going on about that for the last week.........mainly shit like....
I wanted to have sex with u in a car, but YOU WOULDNT!! and i want u to have spontaious sex with me BUT U WONT, blah blah blah, everything with him seems to revolve around sex and it shits me, he recons it's all in my head!!! i think we seriously need to see a counceller!!
And i prefer the guy i was with Ryan he is a sweet, and enjoys talking to me about everything and anything, he has 2 younger brothers who are NOT married have NO children and have NO girlfriends!!! He doesnt smoke never has, he drinks maybe once every 6mths, his parents are still together, he has a good paying job, has 3 cars??!! hehe he is a collector, has only a small debt $8000, where as ty has once again maxed out the credit card $3000 plus he has $14500 that he owes for his car and the last time he maxed out the credit card!!
I wouldnt start dating someone else if me and Ty broke up for at least 6mths, but i would contiune my friendship with Ryan!!!
what should i seriously do??
I hate most of Ty's family and wish death on his sister in law!!! Now he is saying that if i can get proof that his step-mum said things to the family that bridget had said then his dad is going to divorce her!!!?? how does that make me feel?? he said that ppl will think it wasnt my fault and that everything was her fault!!! but it's my name being dragged thru the dirt, and my cousin is dating her son!!! so seriously i will have to see her that there wedding and everything!! she will never be outta my life!!
ok i guess im not having a good day!!! | | comments: 2 comments or Leave a comment |
| Ok well i woke up today feeling like CRAP!!! and now im spotting....so im hoping its nothing, i never know i could be off with my dates a bit....so it would hopefully be nothing more than implantation bleeding, i did get a light period when i was pregnant with ethan, but it wasnt 2 weeks late wow time flies i think its 3 weeks now....gosh...so yes just letting you know...
mmm.....im going to go to the doctor tomorrow to have a blood test to see if my hormones are still up and not going down!!!
Im ok if i have a miscarriage, im used to it now.
ok well i have to go, my parents just called me.....they are in england for all of yous who dont know!! Im so excited to hear from my mum!!! | | comments: 1 comment or Leave a comment |
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| Hey everyone, im so excited, but scared to tell anyone but thats why i'll tell you all here!!!
Im PREGNANT!!! Whoohoo i think the due date is well hang on i will have to check, would it be jan? see the thing is, is that i was on the pill, and me and ty, fianlly had the courage to to "get it on" without a condom, even though i have been on the pill since Ethan was born we always double up on protection, we thought it would be ok, but guess not!!!
But dont get too excited girls, its ealy days, so im not telling anyone till im at least 8weeks. I have had a lot of miscarriages in the past, usually around 7 weeks, so i think 8 weeks and the family can know, it's easier than having to tell them that you have lost the baby!!!
Well how is everyone else?? | | comments: 4 comments or Leave a comment |
| ok Ethan is now 9mths old....
i have a qucik few questions that i need to be answered....hopefully if u can...
1. how do i get him to drink out of a sippy cup??? he wont do it... sometimes he will drink thru a straw
2. when did your children accually attempt to feed themselves? ethan wont hold the bottle or anything... he just will scratch it, he scratches everything....even me!!!!
3. does anyone have any good ideas of how to get him to go to sleep on his own?? he has really stopped doing it for the last month and become really sulky...he rolls around in bed, so i now.. sorta tie him down with a sheet around his waist, if i cover his arms he screams more!!! i put on the musicl lullaby thing plays a picture on the roof but still i end up having him screaming for hours cause he wont go to bed, but he wont play, he wants to be held... i end up going to bed with him to make him sleep and i dont want to get into the habbit of doing that too much!!!
ok now he is awake again!!!
better go, it almost midnight!!!! | | comments: 4 comments or Leave a comment |
| My youngest sister Chelsea did her deb last night and this is a photo of her and me!!!! It was a great night!!! hope everyone is having a good weekend...
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| I just started using photo bucket and cant work out how come some things go smaller while others still stay large?? im slowly working this out!!! I forgot to metion we had a good easter!!! thats me on easter day, thats my new hair that i got done last week...
Ty and Ethan and Ty's brother Shannon with his son Kianon Jan 06
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| So it's been a long time since i updated, but not too much has really happened in the last 6mths, Ethan is a big boy now, and he is getting up and almost crawling, mainly just rocking!!! He is 8mths now well almost getting towards 9mths.
So the bio father contacted me about 3mths ago, saying he wanted to be part of ethans life, and i said i would have to think about it. so a mth ago, i said ok, cause he promise to see him every week, and i stupidly beleived him...... he has seen him 3times and the last time was almost 1 mth ago now!!! he saw him twice in the first week and once in the second week, and that second week was 3weeks ago, why??? becuase he is busy, trying to make enough money so i will go back together with him.... why hasnt he returned my calls for the last week?? beucase i told him there wasnt a chance in hell that i would ever go back together with him, and to stop thinking it, and stop writing me love letters!!! And if i was his souldmate why did he leave me, in the middle of the night while i was 3mths pregnant??? and not speak to me for the next 2mths??? he is a fucking moron, and i hope he fucks off now, Ty is Ethans real dad, and he knows him as daddy he is going to adopt him when we get married (justin is not on the birth certificate so i dont need his permisson, although he thinks i do, stupid moron!!!)
At the moment we are having a little time apart.. me and ty im living at my parents house for the next 2 mths while they are away in the USA and the UK!!! taking care of my sisters!!!YEAH
we decided it would be a 2mth break, and that if we wanted we could see other ppl, but i have gone out and many guys have tried to pick me up and all i can think of is Ty and how much i love him, so i dont think i will seriously be with another man!!! he feels the same as me, well thats what he told me, we are not to speak about anyone we are with on the break, and once again he is spending all his time with his mum again!!! STRANGE??? he is there like everynight till really late!!!
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